The 5 Wedding Getting-Ready Outfits That Aren’t Robes (Because Yes, We’ve Seen Enough)

Look, we get it. Robes had their moment. They’re cute, they’re easy, they swish when you walk across a marble floor holding champagne. But if the idea of another lace-trimmed robe makes your eyelid twitch, you’re not alone. Fortunately, the getting-ready outfit has evolved—finally—and there’s a whole world beyond “bride” bedazzled across your back.

1. Shorts Pajama Sets

Aesthetic: Cute, crisp, and suspiciously like something you could wear again.
The matching PJ short set is the low-effort, high-payoff look for a hot venue or a summer wedding. It gives just the right amount of casual glam without trying too hard.

Think “polished but I still slept 9 hours,” which is a lie, but we’ll let you have it. Go for satin if you want shine in the photos, or cotton if you want to breathe like a human.

2. Long Pajama Sets

Aesthetic: Old-money energy with less internalized misogyny.
Long PJs are having a comeback, probably because everyone’s over freezing their legs off for the sake of aesthetic. A button-down top, silky fabric, and full-length pants give off a calm, luxurious vibe—like you woke up at the Four Seasons and aren’t worried at all about the flower arch collapsing. Monogramming optional, anxiety inevitable.

3. Nighties

Aesthetic: Flirty, romantic, and maybe not for brunch with Grandma.
If you’re not afraid to lean into the romance, a nightie can be a gorgeous alternative. Light lace, spaghetti straps, maybe some embroidery if you’re feeling fragile and expensive. Just maybe double-check there aren’t photographers crouching low while you’re getting your hair done.

4. Not-Robes (But Technically Still Robes)

Aesthetic: Rebranded for dignity.
Okay, okay—yes, robes can still work, but only if you’ve evolved past the floral polyester ones that wrinkle when you blink. Think structured kimono styles, waffle-knit spa robes, or a sleek, oversized silk number. Less “bachelorette Etsy haul,” more “editor-in-chief of Vogue Japan taking a call.”

5. Slippers That Deserve Their Own Close-Up

Aesthetic: Pillow for your foot, but elevated.
You could wear the freebies from the hotel, but then again, you could also eat instant noodles on your wedding day. Slippers matter. They complete the look. Go for faux fur, embellished slides, or personalized pairs that say “Bridezilla” if you’re just embracing it at this point. Also, you’ll thank yourself when you’ve been standing for 10 hours and your feet don’t want to declare independence.

Final Thoughts (Because Every Blog Needs a Faux-Deep Ending)

Your getting-ready look sets the tone for the day. It’s what you’ll be wearing when you cry-laugh, ugly cry, or just cry. So choose something that makes you feel actually comfortable and not just Instagram-ready. Spoiler: If you’re itchy, sweaty, or adjusting your top every three minutes, that whole “effortless bridal glow” thing flies straight out the nearest Tiffany-blue window.

You deserve better than a polyester robe that says "Wifey." Choose accordingly.